LOL!!! She's also an occasional somnambulist...inherited that from me, I think...

< no ones in the chat so im leaving.

IM SAD

nicole thinks im trying to break wil and her up, and im not at all. i just want whats happy for wil, and whether he thinks it or not, i dont think shes making him happy.
he blows me off for her constantly but says its my girlfriend as an excuse, but the other nite he flipped and i no he didnt mean it, cuz when he flips he babbles on and doesnt mean what he says, but he said ur not #1 and u dont have to be. but hes my best friend, and nicoles all pissed, and he talks to her so much and sees her in school and i see him twice a week. if hes my best friend i dont feel like thats enough. but i guess it has to be.......i worry over this way too much....im just gonna have to accept that he's gonna blow me off for his g/f whether or not he means it, cuz i no we're best friends, at least im second to nicole i hope, so im just gonna accept it. but its so hard to

Hey mikemono, here is a little advice. Completely ignore me if I am outta line....

Okay... you are all about 15 right?

1) Don't take it personally but he will blow you off for Nicole every time.

2) Little head always overules the big head. Especially at 15. Trust me it ain't personal.

3) Don't try to place yourself in Wil's shoes as far as what he does or does not do with Nicole. You are not Wil and he is not you.

4) Do not mourn the times you are not together. Take that energy turn it around and "celebrate" the times you are together and makin music and just being friends.

5) When you are not able to be with Wil, focus and work on yourself and your music and your dream. It will be up to Wil to stay with or catch up to you. You can only control you, NO ONE ELSE. Let it go.

6) I know it is hard since he is your best friend and I hate to give you the bad news... but this is gonna be the situation for a long time as you both figure out how to balance relationships with women with your friendship. Especially inside of a band or musical partnership where so much of your emotion and ego is involved. Do not let some girl come between you.

7) Finally.... if you want Wil to stay your friend, never give him advice or opinions on Nicole. UNLESS he asks you, or you know for a FACT that she is doing something that can hurt him physically. NEVER. Otherwise you will lose him to the obsessions, lies, and deceptions that surround these young serious relationships. I am not saying you that you should tolerate any thing that is harmful to you. Just do not get in the middle of Wil and Nicole. You will lose that game. But if you step in the middle of that I guarantee that 5 years from now you will wonder what happened to your friendship.

I know this situation feels like it is going to go on forever, but it is not. It will pass and so will Nicole. Most likely by her own actions or that of Wil. Stay on the high road and your friendship with Wil will survive Nicole and the all of the other women after her.

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no!! mike mike mike....ive been there it gets better ok!?!?
if you really want to stay friends with wil, then do that, but you need to get out there and make other friends too. Those will last alot longer than his relationship with nicole....and when that fades away hel probably need a friend.
PM me to talk if you want ok?

> Gonna clean my house front to back the next couple of days. School holidays have started today, so I have the whole week to get my house all shiny again!! Starting with the bedroom windows in a minute!

<starts new job today!.......

Go for it, girl...

^^ Good luck, Lisa!!

> Is in cleaning mode at the moment.I'm actually in a good mood too doing this!!! WTF???

^Don't fight it, Esther...

^I'm not!!! I'm enjoying myself!!! lol!!!

YEAH BABY, GOOOO WHITE SOXXXXXX!!!!

<GOIN' TO THE WORLD SERIES GAME ON SATURDAY!!! YEAHYAAAAA.

<Oh godddd. Okay, our school newspaper is so ridiculously underfunded. See, the more advertisements we put in our paper, the more people pay US the money to put OUT that ad...the more ads, the longer the paper. Three years ago, the paper was sixteen pages long. Now its EIGHT. Cause everyone is LAZY and doesn't wanna advertise. Now I have a list of 30 stores/businesses I have to go to tonight to ask if they wanna advertise - I need at least ten of them.

^Just flutter your eyelids at them, Annie...I'm sure you'll have all of them screaming for ad-space!!!

Thanks normandi and cd, i'll keep the pm-ing u (cd) in mind.

Im not too worried anymore, I no he'll blow Nicole off for me all the time, but im gonna live with it. I have other friends, its jsut hes my best one.

I never give him advice ever unless he asks, cuz if i did, that would ruin things.

Hes the one who helps me develop as a musician, but i do develop a lot on my own, but ever since i met him i havent written a song without him.

I dont get in the middle of it, but his g/f i-m'd me and was flirting with me, so i told him. I felt he had a rite to no. And she tried to talk to me all the time, and i didnt listen, but i wanst going to not talk, that would make Wil angry, but i didnt flirt back, and i told him that she flirted with me, and he believes me. I dont talk to her anymore cuz she thinks im breaking them up, but im not trying to at all, i just want wil to be happy. shes not talking to me, so that problem is gone.

Wil sucks at balancing time. But he doesnt mean any harm by it. Every time I tell him he doesnt see the harm, he feels like its all ok, so i should just listen to him, cuz if he thinks its all ok, then it should be.

Shes not coming between us, and she hates me, but Wil doesnt care that she hates me, he doesnt like me any less. which shows that its all ok, i just worry way too much.

< have to study for math and esci........
< guitar lessons at 630......

< Wishes I were as clever as some of the fans on here, then I'd be able to make really clever, in depth, interesting and worthy posts that go over everyone elses heads, using 500 words or more.

< Often feel "unworthy" around here just because I not only like Tom's music but think he's hot and sexy as well. Apparently that's a sign of low intelligence and the personality profile of an obsessed stalker.

> Is off to bed now! Have a nice evening all and good night!!!

<tired

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< Often feel "unworthy" around here just because I not only like Tom's music but think he's hot and sexy as well. Apparently that's a sign of low intelligence and the personality profile of an obsessed stalker

EMMIE! Come now, don't let people make you feel that way!!! What the hell is wrong with being attracted to someone! If that is true, then I am one of the biggest numbskulls on this BBS.

HAHA JIM! Funny you mention that! I went to sell an ad at my fave coffee shop and one of the guys who works there came and sat down and chatted me up for a half hour. How foreign.

> bummed about having to go back to work tomorrow.

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Originally posted by TomPettyRoxxx:
HAHA JIM! Funny you mention that! I went to sell an ad at my fave coffee shop and one of the guys who works there came and sat down and chatted me up for a half hour. How foreign.

Well? Were you successful? And did you sell any ad-space?

Do tell...

> Just got home and I'm so pissed off!!! I was supposed to have a second date with this guy and he didn't show up!!! I waited for an hour and was getting f**king cold out there and he just didn't bother to show up!!! I seriously have had enough of this bullshit!!! Why do guys keep treating me this way?? No more men for me!!! I'm gonna stay a happy single, much easier, less heartache!!!